陰陰濕濕嘅讚美:聽落好聽,實情係無意中得罪咗人
避免啲表面好聽,但實情透過驚訝、比較、年齡、身材或者技術陷阱無意中得罪人嘅英文讚美。
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關於「英語語用技巧」嘅文章、學習策略同實用指南。
避免啲表面好聽,但實情透過驚訝、比較、年齡、身材或者技術陷阱無意中得罪人嘅英文讚美。
用溫暖而貼地嘅英文去鼓勵人,真正支持對方,而唔會聽落空洞、誇張,或者好似抄返嚟嘅海報金句。
一份實用嘅英文語氣指南,教你點樣提出有用嘅批評,而唔會攻擊對方嘅人格、責怪個人,又唔會將一個小問題搞到好似衝住人嚟咁。
超越「good job」同「needs work」呢類含糊嘅英文意見,用「觀察、影響、下一步」砌成嘅實用講法去畀意見。
認識「I'm proud of you」喺英文裏面幾時聽落溫暖、幾時又會顯得太親密或者太有上對下嘅意味,以及有咩較安全嘅替代講法。
認識邊啲英文意見開場白聽落會顯得無禮、防衛心重,或者扮客氣,再用啲令批評更易入耳嘅講法去取代佢哋。
用自然嘅英文句子去讚努力、堅持、進步同聰明嘅選擇,而唔係淨係讚完美嘅結果。
用簡單而溫暖嘅回應,自然咁用英文接受讚美,而唔係推搪、爭辯或者解釋過頭。
一啲實用嘅英文講法,喺學校、職場同日常生活裏面更正錯誤,又唔會責怪個人,亦唔會令句更正聽落好似攻擊咁。
學識點樣令你嘅英文讚美講得具體、有溫度、令人信服,而唔係空泛、誇張或者尷尬。
Learn natural, kind English for comforting someone — plus the well-meant phrases that accidentally sting, and what to say instead.
“I don’t feel like it” and “I don’t want to” both say no — but one is soft and one can sting. Learn the tone difference and the softeners in between.
“Happy” is fine but vague. Learn when to reach for excited, proud, relieved, or grateful so your good feelings actually land.
Learn calm, natural English for telling someone they hurt your feelings — without sounding cold, accusing, or over-the-top.
Stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, burned out — four words for hard days, four different meanings. Learn which one fits and how to say it naturally.
Some apologies make things worse. Learn the difference between a real apology and a non-apology, and the natural English phrases that actually repair a moment.
Annoyed, frustrated, upset, angry, mad — they’re not the same. Learn which word to use so you sound clear, not explosive, when something bothers you.
“I feel bad” can mean guilty, sick, sad, or sorry — and listeners can’t tell which. Learn precise, natural English for saying exactly how you feel.
用英文結束一段關係,要有誠實同關心。成熟嘅 phrase、要避開嘅嘢,加埋點樣善意咁處理場對話。
Dating、seeing each other、hanging out、talking、exclusive —— 英文特登搞到早期關係好曖昧。教你點樣解碼。
用英文講家庭爭執同緊張氣氛,又唔會 oversharing。學識英文嘅 understatement、禮貌嘅迴避方法,以及面對八卦時點樣設界線。
Like、have a crush on、be into、interested in —— 英文有好多種方法講你對某人有意思。教你點揀啱嗰個。
用英文推搪一個約會邀請,唔玩失蹤、唔講大話、唔吊住對方。畀人善意、清晰、又絕對嘅拒絕。
用自然嘅英文講前度 —— ex、former partner、past relationship、moved on —— 連語氣、register 同唔會冷場嘅句式一齊學。